37 weeks!

I'm 37 weeks today!  And while I write this, yes, it is 3:54 am!  Another bout of insomnia has hit hard.  Instead of tossing and turning (which I have already done for about 2 hours) I decided to get up and actually do something productive.  I did some picking up (quietly) as not to wake up Nick, Maggie and Daisy (whom we are watching as Jon and Bekah are picking up their baby boy David Jeremiah in Taiwan!!!), tried my hand at altering one of my tank tops into a nursing tank (with reasonably good results) and decided it was time to make an update to the blog.  Indeed, I am 37 weeks today and with just 3 weeks to go, my phone app says the baby's about 19 inches and 6.5 pounds - the size of a watermelon!  Although, I have to make a note that all babies are different (of course) and that figure may not be accurate - but it does give you an idea on the size of the baby.  

So...we have decided on a name...(drum roll)...she'll be Olivia.  I've always liked this name, and there's something to be said about classic names that will always sound great and never go "out of fashion".  We were contemplating on a more "trendier" name but nothing really sounded good.  Plus she'll have a slew of neat nicknames that we can use: Olive, Liv, etc.  And overall it just rolls off the tongue nicely and it's feminine but not too feminine, and it's strong and likable.  Lastly it's probably not as popular as a few years or decades back so I'm hoping there will be less "Olivias" out there for her age group when she gets older.  As for her middle name, I'm still waiting for my parents' help on that.  We'd like it to be a Chinese name but no final choices yet.

So catching back up to a few weeks ago I finished my Basic Instructor Course (BIC) - yeah!  We actually had a really nice group and all got along great.  The class probably could have been compressed quite a bit but I still learned a lot about lesson preparations, instructor mannerisms, communicating the materials to a group, etc.  I also finished the Lamaze class, which was useful but I'm not sure what techniques I'll actually be using in labor.  Also, based on first-hand knowledge and experience, my friend Katy Gannon recommended Hypnobirthing, which basically trains the laboring woman to be (as much as possible) in complete relaxation during labor.  Sounds crazy but it totally worked for her and to be frank the philosophy sounds really good.  So I've been trying to devote a bit of time practicing some of the techniques - we'll see how it goes!  I've also had great email and IM conversations back and forth from a good friend Vanessa from high school.  It's wonderful to have friends who have already "been there" for labor and afterwards!  

I've also been adjusting to my new job.  No real instructing hours yet - I've been mainly involved with learning my way around the organization and our mission, and since there's a large flux of personnel as well as the moving around of personnel it's been difficult.  I'll definitely be staying in the division but I'm not sure if I'll stay where I am now as one of the branch chiefs - I'm not worried though - it'll all get worked out.  I do have to say that so far I really like all the people in the office.  Overall everyone's really positive, even though they've been hit hard with recent deployments in support of Japan's radiation assessments, not to mention a lot of people, including the main boss, rotating out soon.  They also threw me a work baby-shower, which was completely unexpected and surprising since I just got there.  But it was really nice to receive some additional things that the baby will need.  

Speaking of baby showers, our friends Jackie, Mark, Tara, Bekah and Mrs. G all helped in throwing us a coed shower.  It was beautiful and really nicely put together - we are very lucky to have such wonderful friends.  I'll definitely try to get some pics up of those!  The baby's room is pretty much all done too.  Nick and I have been making weekly trips to Babies'R'Us and Target just to see what lose ends we need to tie up in terms of getting Olivia anything else she might need.  I've also started to pack my bag...I know...it should be done, but I'm just not as in a rush as I probably should be.  Lots of people at work keep reminding me I really should have everything ready to go...we're getting there! :-)

As if I don't have enough to do I'm cramming for my annual Defense Language Proficiency Test (DLPT) for Chinese Mandarin.  Yes, every year I have to re-test and every year I end up cramming.  Maybe I'll actually keep up with just an hour or two of studying every week or every other week...that's always my goal!  But truly, speaking of languages, my plan is to teach Olivia Chinese.  This will be a touch challenge as I've read to be very effective at raising a bi-lingual babe it's good for one parent to stick with language.  I will try my very best!  

Lastly, I have to say that I really miss running and can't wait to get back into it.  Nick and I are running the 10K this year the AF marathon, hopefully I'll be able to jog most of it - as I can't really start to train until 6 weeks after the baby - which means I pretty much have no time to run before the race.  But I've been active throughout this pregnancy so hopefully that'll help.  

Well it's been about 2 hours and I'm going to try to get some shut-eye before our morning walk.  I'll try to make more frequent updates and load some photos soon!

~V

32 weeks and 4 days...

It has been unseasonably warm in Dayton, OH this year.  Weather.com has stated it's about 15 degrees higher in temperature for what's "normal" for around the area - and I - starting to be a very pregnant woman, do not enjoy it one bit!  

Let's see, where should I pick up - so much to talk about!  And once again, it has been more than 4 weeks since my last update.  I have lots of excuses, but I will not go into them.  I think an update per month is frankly not too bad.  We'll start back up around the beginning of May, where tons of family visited and we celebrated our niece Hayden's first birthday on Mother's Day.  It was a super cute celebration and we are so glad that our house is centrally located enough for everyone to gather at.  We got to see Nick's parents, of course, as well as my sis-in-law Brie and baby Hayden.  Nick's aunts Jenni and Lucy made it, as well as Jenni's husband uncle Bill.  The grandparents Shirley and Dick also came for the day from Michigan.  We had a fun but busy time and I can't believe Hayden turned one year old, how quickly the time goes by.

I finally started my basic instructor's class at the brand new building where BRAC has consolidated all aerospace medicine studies.  That was about mid May or so when we started school.  While I was glad to start the class it was hard being back in the classroom all day again - some things never change I guess but there is something to be said about being a life-long student.  After all, what can beat the joy of learning new things and being a better instructor for my future students?

We had a Memorial Day cook-out where we invited friends over and had lots of fun.  With his credit card reward points Nick purchased an early anniversary gift for me, well, for the baby: a step 2 slide system.  Only later did he realize it was for kids 2 years and up - oh well, I'm sure the baby will be able to use it in no time.  Seriously though, they have so many fun toys for kids these days!

We started our Lamaze childbirth class as well at the base hospital.  While it is a good class with lots of information I have either already seen or read just about 85% of it - but still, the extra 15% is nice.  Nick has been supportive in going with me, but not always the happiest of campers.  I may go to the rest by myself - we'll see.  Mostly it as been hard for me to completely alert after a long day as the class is every Wednesday from 6-8:30 pm -- for 6 weeks!  Plus I have another nursing class to attend by myself.  Still, I'm very appreciative for all the resources that the base hospital is providing - especially their general attitude toward a more natural birth without all the crazy interventions.  

During the first class a few weeks ago a tornado warning was actually called - meaning a tornado had actually been seen in the area.  We arrived home to find hail as large as the size of small peaches, only flatter.  Nick and I had been painting our garage floors with epoxy so we had been parking the cars outside.  Luckily we both drove our cars and they stayed on base for the evening and there wasn't hail in that area.  Our wonderful neighbor, who has been taking care of the dogs on Wednesday nights, describe how crazy the storm was.  She also said they had lots of roof damage at an earlier storm with smaller hail.  Sure enough, our insurance adjuster came out a few weeks later and totaled our roof as well as three of the five skylights.  Our older plastic "bubble" skylights had holes from the hail!  Even with a 1% deductible on the insured value of the house we should be okay once the claim gets finalized.  Our house was built in 1988 and a new roof was installed in 2001, so it'll definitely be a nice selling point when we go to sell the house.  Nick couldn't differentiate roof damage but the adjuster sure could.  I guess this is why we pay home insurance!

So about the baby - she's a super active baby!  I don't even have to count fetal movements because she pretty moves around most of the day!  I've gained about 20 pounds and I'm hoping not too much more with the 7.5 weeks left.  I've also really fallen off the exercise wagon.  I walk on most days and house and yard work keep me active.  But actually devoting time to exercise has been tough - hopefully I can go back to at least 3 to 4 times a week before the baby's here.  Other than that I'm having some more difficulty getting good rest at night.  My bulging belly makes it difficult to get comfortable, as well as the nightly trips to the bathroom - at times it has increased to 2 times a night.  But I better get used to that with night time feeding coming up in a few weeks.  I've also started to do some packing just in case, although that's not completed.  

I have some other good news to share: I passed my gestational diabetes test with flying colors!  My level was at 73 (not sure what the units are) but my midwife told me they don't get concerned until the levels reach around 130 - so essentially I'm only a little over half of what they would worry at!  I was pretty sure I wouldn't have too much problem with this with my generally good diet and exercise, but you never know after drinking the equivalent of 2/3 of a can of super sugary water - who wouldn't have high blood sugar levels after that?  

My brother Aleck has graduated from high school.  My mom has been somewhat stressed with his high school years but he's made it through.  He's probably enlisting in the Air Force and going to college about 4 years later, which all sounds like a good plan.   

I think this is about it, it's hard to believe we have less than 8 weeks to go, and I feel like I still have so much work to do.  Our good friend Jackie and Mark are throwing us a coed baby shower at the end of the month, so hopefully whatever we have left to get we'll receive at the shower - baby needs so much stuff!  I will once again work on getting pictures posted...

3rd trimester and other fun!

So it has been awhile since my last update, life has been a bit crazy.  It's hard to think that the baby will be here in 3 months!  We are still very busy around the house, mainly with finishing up our home projects, TONS of yard work, my new job, and Nick's transition into a new job in about 2 months.  And yes - I graduated!  After all the worrying I managed to finish my thesis ahead of schedule and graduated without any problems on 24 March 2011.  I am very thankful for the way the timing worked out for this pregnancy, and very grateful I was barely sick at all.  But I will say I felt like a waking zombie at times, barely able to function and work on school because I was utterly exhausted.  Jogging and doing pregnancy exercises was the only thing that kept me going - that and paying attention to what I eat.  I will try to include some pictures of graduation when my husband finally gets them off his fancy camera!  

To be honest 2nd trimester flew on by fairly quickly.  I think I was anxious as I knew the scariest period had passed (the first 13 weeks) but I still was a bit unsure of everything as far as baby's progress goes.  Plus it took a long time for my belly to show.  BUT...as soon as I started to feel the baby I think it was better (with a caveat).  This was around 17.5 weeks.  I felt reassured every time I felt her but when I wouldn't feel her for a day or so I became just a little worried - even though at that stage I knew it to be completely normal.  In fact, one's not even supposed to start recording fetal movements until 28 weeks - yet I couldn't help it sometimes.  I will say that as the pregnancy goes further I am starting to worry less and less.  To that I will credit my awesome hubby, who always reminds me of the things I simply cannot control and to let go.  Also, at 19 weeks we were told it was most likely a girl, and this was again confirmed at my second ultrasound a few days ago, at 26 weeks 5 days.  

Our nursery is just about completed!  All we need is a glider and ottoman, which we are buying from a friend.  We did have to add in my dresser and bookshelf from when I first graduated from the Academy just because the baby girl already has too much clothes!  Yup...it's a sad Brownheim fact, we all have way too much clothes.  So we have told family and friends to 1) not buy clothes, 2) if they must, buy size 2T and up, preferably something more like 3 or 4T.  We are so lucky we have wonderful friends with older baby girls who have passed down quite a bit of stuff to us - I've only bought 3 sets of clothing at a Mommy sale for something like fifty cents each!  On another note, the book shelf is getting filled with books as well, so I'm so glad we'll have a variety to read at night!

Nick and I decided to take a babymoon end of April down to Destin, FL at our friend's mother's condo.  It was beautiful down there and we also got to see a few friends.  It was nice to catch back up with Chris and Jackie P in Auburn, AL, Chris and Jodi W, as well as my friend from my career field school Mike in the Destin area.  We had a lovely time but I started to get antsy towards the end.  My constant need to "accomplish" things drives Nick crazy sometimes, but I'm just a very goal/task-oriented person, and it's hard for me to break from that sometimes.  I think I get it from my mother, who's always running around the house too.  Now if we can just take another week off to do our yard life would be good!

So I was slated to go down to San Antonio for the Basic Instructor Course (BIC) from 11 May until 16 June.  While I was looking forward for some time to relax from all the projects of our house, I knew I would have to be in the heat too.  After all my funding, trip details and reservations were submitted I was told that to save money they're bringing up an instructor up from Lackland.  While I really wanted to check on our rental house in San Antonio, this really makes more sense rather than sending 10 people to Lackland at probably 5K a piece for a 5.5 week class.  So I won't get to see some friends as well as the house in San Antonio but I'm actually most grateful for our comfy bed and the fact I'll have Nick close by for support.  

Our niece Hayden Isabella turns 1 year old on 8 May and we're so excited that Nick's parents, grandparents, aunts and uncle, as well as Brie and Hayden can come to Ohio and we can all celebrate.  It has been a bit rough for Brie with Nick's brother Nate being deployed so we're glad we can all be together this coming up weekend.  Speaking of deployments, we averted another deployment for Nick, who was tasked to go in less than a year after coming back in 2010.  With less than a week to spare we had initially decided for him to get out of the Air Force, as he would have needed additional training and would miss the baby's birth and essentially the first 7 months or so.  We were thrilled however when we found out he got an assignment at the AF Institute of Technology (AFIT - where I just graduated from) to teach cyber-security technical courses for AF officers!  So the deployment is averted and he'll be in for another 2 years at least!  We're in a take-it-as-we-go mentality right now, especially since his career field has gone to a 1:1 home/deploy ratio, meaning he's home for 6 months, gone for 6 months.  This equals total awful-ness for family life!  

Another item on the agenda I'm extremely happy and relieved about is the fact our friend Bekah will most likely be taking care of the baby.  She and her husband Jon are adopting a  sweet little boy from Taiwan and will hopefully be picking him up soon!  Between my maternity leave and the 2 weeks Nick will have we're hoping to take our baby girl to her starting around October.  That'll give them a chance to get acquainted and into a routine before we add our bundle of joy to the mix.  I am so glad this will work out as I'm super particular about food, and this way I can make my own food for the baby later as well as try cloth-diapering - which saves both money and diapers from the landfills.  Yes, I'm a bit of a tree-hugger, even before I was an environmental engineer!  

So I think that's all the festivities for now.  We still have some major projects around the house, including having new skylights installed (one started to leak with the monsoon season Dayton has been having), our crazy yard which we have improved in a major way but still needs lots of work, new wood flooring, taking down wallpaper and painting in the dinning room, and some trim work in the kitchen.  But we'll just have to take it one step at a time...until next time...

~V

21 weeks!!!

So I'm officially a few days over 21 weeks and am now "over the half way mark"...except the second part seems so far from now!!!  My belly's definitely gotten bigger, although I can still probably hide it fairly well if I wanted to.  But if I wear anything tight then game-over...there's definitely something there and I'm finally looking more pregnant and less like I'm overdoing the donuts.

I will be graduating this Thursday - hallelujah!  It seems like grad school has been a long time but really it flew by.  There were the nights and weeks when I was completely stressed and hardly got any sleep but overall it wasn't a bad experience - and I'm all the better for it.  Thank goodness I didn't get pregnant any earlier though, that would have been tough.  Even the baby was very planned we were still a bit surprised that we conceived so fast, and we're definitely very thankful for that.

So I have been feeling pretty well and went on my regular jog yesterday (2 miles) with the kids.  On the days when I don't feel like it we walk.  I have also been very busy this weekend.  I'm almost done cleaning the house from top to bottom - this is my Spring cleaning and I like to wipe everything down, vacuum, clean all the bathrooms, dust, etc.  I also washed the dogs today as they were getting stinky and itchy.  

I made lots of food in anticipation of Nick's homecoming from Alabama, plus the fact that when I was in school I never seemed to have enough time to cool.  I made tons of baozi (filled buns), mantou (plain buns) and baked 2 loaves of banana bread.  The baozi contains pork with lots of organic cabbage and the delicious green onions, as well as garlic and a blend of spices.  They were extra good this time.  I love the mantou too - they're plain but delicious with a bit of hummus or even fruit preserves.  The banana bread is more of a bread and less of a cake and they turned out great the bread machine - very simple.  I made them with some wheat flour but they're not whole wheat since I was afraid they would be too dense.  They're also not very sweet - which I prefer.  So that's what I've been up to!  I still have yard work to do but I think I'm going to leave that to Nick.  It's harder now since I can't go non-stop.  I have to remind myself to take breaks and my back gets sore too.  I also have to stop for more water breaks and snacks.  But overall I'm still feeling great.

I am also super thankful that I really never got any morning sickness, just a bit nauseated a few times, nothing a few candied ginger couldn't handle.  But the one pregnancy symptom that has followed me from the very start is the frequent urination.  I can't remember how many times I just finish flushing and washing my hands that it hits me again...REALLY?  I just went...and it's supposed to get worse in the third trimester?  How much worse can it get?  (knock on wood, please let it NOT get that much worse!)

Aside from that our baby's definitely a little wiggle-worm...I get non-stop action for awhile when I lay down...and now I'm even feeling this ninja during the day!  Luckily the baby's still only about a pound...

Well, it's Tuesday night and I'm exhausted.  I still have lots to do before Nick gets home.  These past 5 weeks have gone by slower than I had hoped...sometimes I feel like I'm back in the days when he was deployed for 7 months!  The good thing is I just keep busy with jogging, cooking, cleaning, reading, finishing up school work...etc so it hasn't been too bad.  

I will post a 22 week belly pic later this week - after I squeeze into my service blues for graduation!  Wish me luck!

18 weeks/It's almost Thesis Defense time!

So I have not been doing a great job keeping up with this blog, but I shall blame the thesis write-up and defense coming up as the culprit!  :-)  BUT...I promise to do a better job from now on!  

So things have been very hectic.  I finally wrapped up some experiments and got out of the lab long enough to finish my thesis write-up.  Honestly I think I dreaded so much putting everything together that I made things harder for myself - it really wasn't THAT bad.  I'm not going to say I didn't suffer though -- there was certainly suffering involved, but it was the good kind as I slowly saw I was making progress and I was moving towards my goal of finishing.

I received great feedback from one of my committee members, Dr. Goltz, who really helped me see a few things I had failed to explain thoroughly.  Dr. Schrand also gave me some pointers on what can make my presentation even better, and make the experiments and the results I obtained tell a better story.  I'm excited to say I will be defending my thesis this coming up Monday, 28 Feb and after that it'll all be downhill.  I'll mainly have some paperwork to complete and a few other boxes to check but other than that...I will be GRADUATING on 24 March!  (Can't you tell I'm a bit excited?)  Overall I have really enjoyed my master's experience - not to mention that the Air Force is paying me Captain's pay to be a full time student for almost two years -- how can this deal get much sweeter?  Some people have asked me if I would go back for PhD and truthfully I'm not sure at this point.  I think I would love to eventually but I've also always wanted to work in healthcare too so my desires are kind of split two ways.  I think it's too early to say but I'm leaving that door open for now.  Besides, I may even think about going to Med or Dental school later.  I would say the biggest thing at the moment is enjoying my family and our soon-to-be addition.  Also, I'm really starting to enjoying my career field more in the Air Force so I may just stick to it.  

So Nick left for Squadron Officer School (SOS) this past Monday.  Luckily he'll only be gone for 5 weeks -- this is nothing compared to when he deployed for 7 months last year.  Sometimes military life is hard, and it's especially hard when both husband and wife are active duty!  Thankfully it looks like I will be teaching/managing at our school house so I've opted to not be a consultant.  Running all over the US and Europe sounds great if you're single, but I want to be with my family more!  

As I update the blog I can't believe I'm 18 weeks today!  Just yesterday it seemed like I was only 6 weeks and worried about EVERYTHING!  I still get worried at times, but generally I know things are going to be okay with the baby.  Nick has always said I read way too much, but I just want to be informed!  I will have another routine check-up with my midwife next Thursday, March 3rd, and the gender ultrasound on Friday, March 4th!  We're so excited to find out what this cutie will be.  A few friends and my mom have speculated both girl and boy, so who knows?  All we care about is a healthy baby - besides, it's not like one can choose!

Another big news to report...I have started to feel the baby!  I was laying on the recliner a few nights ago, probably starting on Feb 23rd, and I felt a "tap tap" on the belly.  At first I thought it was my stomach but I quickly realized that positioning was two low to be my stomach, and the movement was repetitive and I'm pretty sure something's there!  Since then almost every night when I'm laying down or at the computer I've started to feel movements and it's truly awesome - and maybe a bit freaky too!  

Lastly, today was a great day!  I walked with our wonderful friend Mrs. Goltz and joined her and her husband and a few other friends for a delicious brunch at their home.  I got to meet some very interesting people I also got a great work-out in.  In fact, I'm pretty tired as I sit here.  Dr. Goltz is training for the LA marathon with a few buddies so they were doing an 18 miler from Yellow Springs back to Factory Rd!  Yes - they're pretty serious!  So I walked with Mrs. Goltz.  I walked for about 37 minutes, then started to jog.  I jogged from 37 minutes right up to an hour, and finished with some more walking and stretching.  I covered 4.5 miles in that hour - not too bad in my book.  I'm really glad to be able to "run" again.  I say "run" since I'm no longer running to train, just to keep in shape to keep me and the baby healthy.  In the first I had some scares with bleeding episodes so I stopped running.  I hopped on the elliptical and did yoga instead - but I missed that part of my life.  So I slowly eased back into it to see if I would have any more problems - luckily it seemed to have gone away (knock-on-wood).  Besides, I really can't associate the bleeding with the running, it was just something I thought could have triggered it.  Nick thinks I was just too stressed, which could definitely have been what it was. 

I think that's about it for now...I still have to put some finishing touches on my thesis presentation.  Plus, I want to go to bed early tonight since I haven't been sleeping as well with the growing belly.  I don't think most people can even tell I'm pregnant still, but if I wear something tight things have definitely changed!  

I will attempt to add a new post every 2 weeks...until then I leave you my 18 week belly pic!

~Veronica

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